Wednesday, April 30, 2008
Work is halted for one, work in progress for the other
There's another half to this week!
We're waiting for the results of the MRI today. Surgery should be scheduled this week or Monday. Ryan has two exams on Thursday and two on Friday so if he had his way, it would be on Friday after exams. We'll see how this plays out.

Monday, April 28, 2008
Wipe out
Ryan, Jen, and Jordy hanging out...back in the younger days. *sigh* where have those years gone?I took Ryan over to get an x-ray today. It appears he's broken the head off his fibula and all the ligaments need to be reattached. Yes, this means major surgery. It's quite a flukey injury and the surgeon admitted he hasn't seen many like this. ugh. I guess they have to screw the head back on the bone and suture the ligaments back on or something. Of course, this is just speculation since they haven't done the MRI yet. Hopefully they can get him in tomorrow.
In the meantime, this is finals week and Ryan contacted his Neuropsychology professor to get an extention on his exam. The surgery will be scheduled for next week when the swelling has gone down. It doesn't look too promising for his full time summer job. I have no idea what he's going to do. I'm just praying that God is going to be flinging open windows since so many doors have been closed. The doctor told him this will probably be the end of his sports career. You should have seen his face. It broke my heart.
I know there are so many things to be thankful for. I mean, really. Ryan is a healthy kid and he will rebound from this injury. Jen is excited to start her business. She wanted me to help her paint today but I had to take Ryan to his appointments. So her and Jordy went and painted this afternoon. Before they left, Jordanne wanted me to go to David's Bridal to order her dress since they had a sale and today was the last day. (10% off is a big savings.) So folks, it's official. The downpayment on the hall has been made, and now the dress is ordered. The bride-to-be was elated. No turning back.
Josh sent me a text message from school telling me to check out his grades. All A's, a B+, and a B. He just took two tests today and got an A+ on both tests. I've known all along that he was capable of grades like that but he finally figured it out on his own. Now he's getting grades like Jacob. Like I said, I've got so much to be thankful for... The girls had a ball painting at the studio...when they heard about Ryan's bad news, they brought him over a slurpee to cheer him up and hung out with him. Wow...23, 22, and almost 21 yr. old siblings hanging out together. How cool is that?
Sunday, April 27, 2008
hmmm...where to start?
Friday, April 25, 2008
In full bloom
Jen's studio pictures
Thursday, April 24, 2008
Work day planned
Wednesday, April 23, 2008
You're never too old to learn
(Click on image to read.)Monday, April 21, 2008
Feeling a little better
"Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God , which transcends all understanding will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." Philippians 4:6-7
Phew, I'm feeling better already.
So then I started to dig around on worry: "The Antidote to Anxiety" (great article)
http://www.unionchurch.com/archive/032501.html
(an excerpt from this site)
Chuck Swindoll calls worry the "universal addiction". Paul understood the natural tendency to become anxious. He knew that anxiety is one of the greatest thieves of joy.
So why is worry wrong? Jesus gives us several reasons. First, It puts the focus on the wrong issues. Jesus said, "Is not life more important than food?" When we worry our perspective gets skewed. We begin to focus on things that are secondary and in the process lose sight of what is really important.
Let me give you some examples:
~you are so worried about a graduation party that you miss the joy that comes from the accomplishment of graduating.
~you worry so much about the shopping that you don't enjoy the Christmas holiday with family.
~you worry so much about looking good that you find you are so absorbed with yourself you can't enjoy the people you are with.
~you are so worried about not having enough money that you don't enjoy the journey of life.
Waiting for the money tree to bloom

Sunday, April 20, 2008
An hour and a half to myself?
found it at a garage sale and knew it would be perfect.
Can you tell we love coffee? I have quite a collection of coffee/teapots. (I should have cleaned off my counters before taking this picture.)
More red fiestaware/bakeware. Uh...do you happen to see the crown moulding to the right that still needs to be put up above my cabinets? Anyone know a good carpenter? Pat said "It'll be a cold day in hell" before he puts it up.
How did this happen? An hour and a half to myself?
It's kind of one of those lazy Sundays anyways...and I'm perfectly content putzing around folding laundry and watching re-runs of "Clean House". (Hey, if I'm too lazy to clean my own house, at least let me be inspired by watching someone else doin' the work.) It's a rare moment in my day and I thought it would be blogworthy.
Attitude adjustment
...Attitude to me is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than success, than what other people think, say or do. It is more important than appearance, gift, or skill. It will make or break a company...a church...a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day...I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with you... we are in charge of our attitudes. - Charles SwindollWow. pretty powerful thinker, that Chuck Swindoll.
It makes me want to work on my attitude and how I react to situations.
I had a revelation the other morning while coming home from dropping my boys off at school. I'm listening to this beautiful Christian song on the radio (and yes, I was singing along) and a lady pulls out in front of me, totally disregarding the stop sign. This, of course, caused me to tap on my brakes to slow down and not hit her. I let out a torrent of bleepity bleeps that would have made Alfie's mom wash my mouth out with soap. (from a Christmas Story) Now mind you, this was not a slamming my foot on the brakes, near collision...this was an impatient mom pulling out in front of a slow moving vehicle that was totally under control at all times. I had to tap my foot on the brake to drop my speed a notch, but I did not fear for my life or even my vehicle. I was pissed to think, "the nerve of that woman!" Who the heck does she think she is to just blow past the stop sign and pull out into traffic? I was snapped back to reality when I heard the Christian lyrics and was humbled.to.death. at my un-Christian attitude. Ahem. I was singing? (I wish to heck I could remember the song that was playing.) So as Mr. Swindoll's inspirational quote suggests...I'm in charge of my attitude and I'd better make an attempt to keep it in check.
Friday, April 18, 2008
Happy Birthday Patrick!

Thursday, April 17, 2008
New haircut
I'm pleased to report the experience was pleasant and I came home happy with the look. I did not even have to change a thing. (which is never). We went out for a few beers to celebrate Pat's 46th birthday (a day early) and he said I look like my girls now.
Wednesday, April 16, 2008
It's a New Day

Tuesday, April 15, 2008
TAX DAY

Now I'm back to just worrying about my kids and paying the bills and keeping the cobwebs down to a minimum. Phew. What a relief. Give me the simple life.
The entire day seems like a blur. To add a little extra stress to the mix, I agreed to work the Bingo tonight at our church...as if I don't already feel like a short order cook at home, I go and work in the kitchen making burgers, grilled cheese, french fries and chicken strips for a bunch of cheapskate folks who think a hot dog basket with chips and a pickle is too expensive at $2.25. (yet they think nothing of dropping $50 to play Bingo every week.) Now I'm frugal and I would much rather drop $2.25 on a hot dog basket than waste $50 on a weekly gambling habit, but I digress.
I smelled like a greasy diner when I got out of there and had achy legs from standing on the concrete floor. Nothing a little shower and a soak in the hot tub couldn't cure. Ahhhh, now that's the simple life I longed for.
I'm actually looking forward to a fresh start of a new day.
Monday, April 14, 2008
Ugh. Taxes.

Face it: Mondays, hormones and taxes don't mix.
Just call me crabby.
Pondering my many blessings

Nearly finished laundry room.



Some vintage prints and magazine ads.

My enamelware collection.



The washboard was in bad shape so I painted
and distressed it. Gotta have some fresh flowers
in an old coffee pot to make me enjoy the scenery.
Perhaps I'm feeling a bit melancholy. Blame it on PMS. Blame it on a funeral. Blame it on a lack of sleep. I dunno... but I'm feeling so blessed.
I'm thankful for my health, the fact that I have 5 healthy kids, and a healthy husband. I'm thankful that my kids all go to church, that they listen to us when we care enough to discipline and correct them. I'm thankful that we could all meet at Timber's after 5:30 mass for pizzas and burgers and laugh together, enjoying each other's company. What a cool, crazy bunch we are and what a gift-laughter. I could blather on and on about how my heart swells with pride when we all get together, but I won't. Because they know it. they feel it. they live it.
So I stayed up until 4:00 am finishing the final coat of paint and putting the laundry room back together. It looks great. I couldn't wait to get Jordy in there to take some pics. (Even though it still has some final things that need to be done. Like finishing my curtains.) Now to get her to post the pics for all blogland to see. Then I can feel like I'm really blogging. Such a novice blogger I am.
I don't know what is wrong with me...why I can't sleep without turning on the tv. I just talked to my mom tonight and she has the same problem and she said it started around my age. Is this hormone related? (I hardly doubt my mom is having hormonal issues at 65. ) I know I'm exhausted but the minute I lay in bed my mind starts racing. ugh.
Mary Lou called and left a message on my cell that she wants to start walking tomorrow morning. Wow, she's amazing considering they just buried her husband on Friday. I know I sure need to walk, I bet she feels the same way after the past few weeks she's had.
Maybe it's a good day to stop for a cappuccino.
Friday, April 11, 2008
no time for chit-chat

I cracked open the paint cans first thing yesterday morning. I painted until around 11:30. This is taking forever because of all the edging around cupboards, ceiling, window, doorway, countertops, pulling out the washer and dryer, etc. Not only am I a pokey painter, I'm a picky, pokey painter.
At 11:30, I jumped in the shower, ran over to pay my water bill, then drove out to Auburn to pick up a St. Francis statue do drop off at the funeral home. I was home an hour later, back in my paint clothes and worked until it was time to pick up the boys. So many interruptions. If I had to wait for an entire day free, I'd never get anything accomplished. So this is my life interrupted. No wonder I have such random thoughts.
I was fearful that Pat was going to get stranded in Texas another day with the American Airlines wiring problems and all the flight cancellations. I guess they ended switching flights through another airline and he made it home safely last night. It's so nice to have him back home.
So... I'm trying to get life back to a state of normalcy around here. I'm tired of having my ironing board in the kitchen and bins of laundry room stuff in my bedroom. I swear I can still see spots of primer through the coats of paint. Gee, I hope I have enough paint... I'm hoping to finish it up this afternoon. After the funeral, the luncheon, my 2:00 haircut appointment, and picking up my boys up from school at 3:00. Then I'll paint. (taking a break of course to whip up some dinner.) *mental note to go pull something out of the freezer.
Ya gotta love my life.
Wednesday, April 9, 2008
Stayed up late, got up early
So last night I stayed up until around 2:30 am finishing the primer in my laundry room. Afterwards took a soak in the hot tub to rest my achy joints and slipped into my cozy bed at 3 am. I could not fall asleep, so I cracked open the murder mystery I've been too busy to finish. Instant sleep aid. My eyes couldn't stay focused much after the first page.
My alarm buzzed off 3 hours later at 6 am, 6:30, then 7:00. I finally woke the boys up for school and crawled back in bed once I heard the shower running. I got up 20 minutes later to give them some lunch money and made sure they left the house at 7:30. Then the phone rang. Apparently dh won't be coming home until tomorrow now because of landing gear problems at American Airlines. Maybe I can get the laundry room finished and put back together before then. Time for a cup of coffee. Sleep is overrated.
Tuesday, April 8, 2008
Uh...Sidetracked again?
Well today is the day. Well, at least this time I hope it's the day... I got sidetracked again yesterday and I got as far as putting the paint and primer cans in the laundry room- that's it. I'm so ashamed to admit how easily I allow myself to get sidetracked. I can proudly profess that I am a "S.H.E." (sidetracked home executive.)In all seriousness, my mind was a million miles away yesterday because my very dear friend and walking partner, Mary Lou, just lost her husband. Rob was only 45. Life just baffles me sometimes. 43 is too young to be a widow and 45 is too young to die. My heart hurts for her and her children and I feel helpless. I cannot imagine wearing her shoes. I felt sick to my stomach all day. It just makes you cherish your own life in all its craziness.
In the big scheme of things...how important is it really to paint my laundry room?
When it gets done, it gets done.
Monday, April 7, 2008
Jumping in with both feet
So this morning my husband boarded a plane for Mexico (work related) and I'm going to crack open the paint can and JUMP IN WITH BOTH FEET! (not literally, silly!)
I haven't figured out how to take a picture off the camera and load it on here yet...I will have to get one of my dd's (dear daughters) to assist me since they are both photography majors. I just haven't gotten around to getting my own digital camera yet. (do ya hear me kids? Mother's Day is coming up soon?)
Yeah, so anyway...
I'm having my cup of coffee right now (how I procrastinate the morning away) and then I'm waking dd Jen up to go for my morning walk... Then it's gonna happen. The moment I've been waiting for. Doggone it if I don't have hair appointments coming at 3:30 today! This is the story of my life. I get going on something and I have to stop and cook dinner, or do a haircut, or run to pick up a kid. And they think SAHM's have a boring life? There's never enough dull moments around here.
Sunday, April 6, 2008
Committed

This is the area above the doorway that dh patched and sanded.

Laundry sink and basket storage.

This was one of the best things we added in here to hang
clothes out of the dryer.

Laundry room devoid of all it's character.
This didn't look as bad as it does now.
Well, I did it. I emptied out the laundry room and washed down the walls. Then dh decided he needed to sand those recently mudded drywall areas. (after he just told me to sponge the high spots and it would be fine.) Oh.my.God. What a mess. He comes out of the laundry room and proudly declares, "It's all ready for you to wash down the walls!"
But- wait a minute! (didn't I just do that?) Well, needless to say I spent the next hour washing down everything all over again, sweeping and vacuuming the finest drywall dust off every square foot of that 6x14 laundry room. (with a vaulted ceiling.)
By that time, I was too crabby and tired to tape and prep, not to mention mentally unprepared to prime and paint. So I planned on getting up early this morning to start the process but dh is sick in bed with a bad case of the "ughs".
I know I should be taking care of his needs, like making a typical Sunday morning breakfast with a pot of freshly percolated coffee. Sigh. I somehow knew this was going to happen. (Not him getting sick, but me getting sidetracked.) It's my middle name.
I'll be sure to take a before and after photo and load it on here if I can figure it out.
Thursday, April 3, 2008
Well, it's about time!
So after all my patient waiting, I'm thinking I would have many days worth of "stuff" to blog about. Um...that would be a resounding NO. I just can't think of a thing noteworthy to mention.
(wracking my brain)...Okay...here's something:
I just found out last night that dh is going to Mexico (for sure) on Tuesday. I guess it's going to be for a couple of days. I'm hoping that we can get that laundry room painted this weekend. We were on such a roll with our little weekend projects. Maybe while he's gone I'll get really productive and surprise him with an accomplished task. Hmm...what can I do start to finish in 3 days?