Well the letter turned into a text message the next day...begging me to give her another chance to prove she's changed. I'm sorry, sweetie...but as much as I liked you...as much as I have forgiven you for nearly destroying my son's life, his confidence, his goals and dreams...I cannot/will not give you a second chance to try it again. Time will heal broken hearts if they aren't repeatedly barraged with constant harassment, nauseating sweetness, psychotic cursing voicemails, etc. So in this case...I decided to just not respond to her text message and letter. I figured it was best that I not play into the drama since she seems to thrive on it. If I catch wind of one more threat of self-harm...I will not hesitate to call her mom...even if she did tell my daughter she was just doing it "to see how much he cared". (Yes...she admitted that she was bluffing.) Time to move on sweetie...really. It's for the best. Practice your "new woman thang" on someone else. I pray to God you are sincerely reformed but please understand I want the best for my son.
What confuses me though...is that she seems to think we (Pat and I) are the ones holding up them dating again. Not that Josh has a choice in the matter. Isn't that messed up? According to him...he wants nothing to do with her...
3 comments:
WOW! She is really messed up. Like you said, why is she begging you??? It's all a little "Fatal Attractionish" if you ask me....Scarey...
yes, my thoughts exactly. I just pray you never have to deal with this.
It's sad when things turn this way... and what's really bad is how this young lady believes her actions are signs of love and the like. I hope she doesn't take these habits into adulthood. I know as young people, we tend to make bad choices, but I some learn from those choices and decide to make better ones in adulthood.
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